Dating a widower

How it will shape the person she will grow up to be.I wonder all of these things, because I cannot ever know. We are different people with different experiences.

And I believe this to have far less to do with my being widowed and far more to do with my ability to love whole-heartedly – the way that Mike deserves to be loved.All I can do is watch with a thoughtful, loving heart as they go through the journey of living on with someone very integral missing. It's about knowing them as well as the person they lost.This fact would be no different if I was single or divorced instead of widowed. It's about wanting both of those people in your life – the one living and the one not.That they would have a hard time understanding my love for him or allowing room for it.Being on the other end of this has given me a different set of eyes though...

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